Friday 30 October 2015

Anaphylactic reaction whilst flying

Anaphylaxis is scary no matter what the circumstances are surrounding it however when you're 32,000ft up in the air...it reaches a whole new level of terrifying.

I had an amazing trip away to the Harry Potter Studio's in Watford, UK. I flew from Edinburgh to London Luton and returned via flight the next day. Everything went according to plan until the return journey. I got on the plane and talked to the cabin crew about my nut allergy. They made a special announcement stating they would not be selling nuts on-board the aircraft and asked if people could please refrain from eating their own nutty products they may have brought with them. One of the flight attendants even passed down the aisle a few times to check if people were eating anything nutty.

Within half an hour I found myself starting to become unwell. I began to feel horrendously itchy. My reaction turned from itching to coughing into difficulty breathing. I cannot begin to describe how it felt to be unwell whilst flying. You try to prepare yourself for anything happening. You ensure you have your medication with you, request a doctor's letter stating you're allowed to carry your medicines including epi-pens. You tell the flight crew about your allergy to nuts which in turn means they can stop the sale of nuts. Yet you never actually think anything is going to happen. Unfortunately this is not always the case. Even the best precautions can often amount to nothing.

I am unsure what caused my reaction. I cannot say for certain but I feel that it was down to peanuts being eaten on a previous flight, someone touching something which I in turn touched which resulted in a contact reaction to peanuts. This is the problem with the seriousness of allergies. People do not for the most part realise that ingestion is not the only thing that can result in anaphylaxis, simply touching something that has peanut protein on it or even breathing in the protein can spark a life-threatening reaction.

I am lucky that this reaction was quickly resolved and did not result in anything more than having to use an epi-pen and paramedics checking me over. I am very thankful to the airline for their help throughout the whole incident as well as the airport.

Friday 21 August 2015

How to make Peanut free Reece's peanut cups (wow butter cups)

I don't know about anyone else but whenever I walk into a supermarket I always seem to come across "Reece's peanut butter cups". As my nut allergy started later in life I have tasted these and thought they were really nice. Peanut allergies really do make everything so much more difficult! Today I decided to trial making my own version of them however the difference being they are completely peanut free :)



Things you will need: 



  • Chocolate (I decided on Tesco baking chocolate however you could use any type you like)
  • Wow Butter (I used crunchy however smooth would work just as well)
  • Icing sugar 
  • Muffin cases (I used 6 big ones however you could use more or less and just adjust the amounts of things used)



Method:




    Melt half of the chocolate. Place 2-3 spoonfuls into the base of each muffin case. Once completed place the muffin cases into the fridge and leave for 5-10 minutes until it is solid










    Mix together the same amount of icing sugar as wow butter. Depending on how much wow butter you want inside the cups depends on how much you would use (I personally used enough to fill each muffin case with 1 teaspoonful).










    Bring the now solid chocolate muffin cases out of the fridge and spoon the mixture of icing sugar and wow butter on top of the solid chocolate. Place these back in the fridge for another 5-10 minutes.













    Bring the muffin cases back out of the fridge and melt the remaining half of the chocolate. Share it out evenly between each muffin case spreading it over over the wow butter so there is none showing. Place it back in the fridge for another 5-10 minutes and enjoy!


    Source: http://wowbutter.com/recipe-viewer.php?recipe=22

    Wednesday 19 August 2015

    I may have allergies but they don't have me!

    I thought I would post a blog post that is a little different. Here's a few photos from the past few months to show what I have been up to. I think it's a great way to show that allergies and anaphylaxis do not define you as a person and do not have to stop you doing things that you want to do and enjoy



    Doing warm-up exercises at singing and
    performing class

    On a night out in a night club
    with two of my friends



    After completing a 5k race
    where I raised over
    £331 for the
    Anaphylaxis Campaign


    Enjoying a dessert
    at a restaurant

    Another night out with my best friend


    Spending time with others


    My up to date warrior beads

    Tuesday 30 June 2015

    Warrior Beads (my medical journey in one picture)

    I came across something called "Warrior Beads" last month after 2 of my facebook friends posted pictures with theirs. Warrior Beads is very similar to Beads of Courage. For anyone unsure on what this is, it's mainly based in America (however is also available in the UK for children with cancer). It's a way of helping a child tell their medical journey in a fun, positive and colourful way. They receive a glass bead for going through things medically. Unlike Beads of Courage, Warrior Beads has no age limit, no limit on which countries can apply and no medical conditions are excluded (both mental and physical).

    I choose to back date mine to the start of my medical journey (2008 with essential tremor/2009 with asthma) however you can choose the date in which to start yours. I guessed a great deal of the things as some of the categories were too challenging to give a proper answer on. There's a colour of bead for basically everything!

    These are my Warrior Beads:


    In this picture I have 2,814 beads. Each bead represents something I have gone through medically. You also receive special beads for reaching 50 and 100 within any colour of bead as well as special beads of medical milestones and everyday accomplishments. 

    Illness is something that is so negative. It causes you to go through a great deal of both emotional and physical pain and hurts those closest to you. Warrior Beads brings a positive out of every negative experience I have been through. Some may not understand how a mass quantity of beads can mean so much to me but they mean more than words can say. They show me how strong a person I have been and continue to be. I have been through a great deal medically, and it's shown visually using warrior beads, however it helps me to see just how brave and strong I truly have been. I've gotten through so much and will continue to fight :)

    292 doctor/clinic visits (dark blue bead)
    221 inpatient days in hospital (yellow bead)
    24 HDU/ICU stays (gold bead)
    43 isolation stays (tan bead)
    234 A&E visits (red bead)
    206 ambulance rides (white bead)
    423 needle pokes (black bead)
    219 IV medications (orange bead)
    1 hair loss (dark brown bead)
    32 no food/drink before a procedure (light blue bead)
    303 x-ray's/CT Scans/MRI Scans/Ultrasounds (olive bead)
    163 ECG's (copper bead)
    6 procedures (star bead)
    206 oxygen required (pink bead)
    8 catheter's (lime green bead)
    9 days with a feeding tube (when applied for) (green bead)
    2 respiratory therapy's (khaki bead)
    1 EEG (clear purple bead)
    4 seizures (purple bead)
    1 glasses, 1 contacts (clear bead)
    394 days of school/uni/work missed (clear yellow bead)

    If anyone would be interested in finding out more about Warrior Beads check out these links:

    Tuesday 28 April 2015

    Breathease cleaning products review

    I seem to be really into the reviews lately. I think it's due to being super happy about finding products which are great for allergy sufferers and wanting to share them with the world!

    This blog is going to be a review (yet another I do apologise haha). It was my mum who initially found this company and introduced me to them. The company is 'Breathease'. The description on their facebook page reads:

    "Breathease® is a range of household cleaners developed specially for people with Asthma and Allergies."

    As well as suffering from multiple allergies and anaphylaxis I also suffer from Brittle Asthma (a severe form of asthma). My asthma is triggered by numerous things with one of them being household cleaners. A lot of them carry a very distinctive smell that causes a lot of coughing and wheezing on my part. Breathease first became popular a few years ago and my mum found out about it when Asthma UK mentioned it on their facebook page. She decided to try it and I found it did not carry the same smell that most cleaning products do.

    When I moved into student accommodation in September last year my mum gave me a bottle of Breathease to take with me so that when cleaning my bathroom etc. I would have a cleaning product in which I could use without any issues. I have found it to be a life-saver. I know with even using bleach to clean my toilet it can sometimes be too much for my asthma so it's great to have something I can use without any worries. 

    Breathease have a variety of different products to suit your needs. They have a: bathroom cleaner, kitchen cleaner, multi-purpose cleaner, shower and tile cleaner and window and glass cleaner. 

    I would recommend this product to not only those who find the smell of cleaning products sets off their asthma but anyone with airway issues as I find it truly does make a difference. It's definitely worth trying at least once to see if it makes a difference. 

    If you'd like to read more about Breathease then check out their:
    Website: http://breathease.co/
    Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Breatheaseclean/timeline





    Friday 24 April 2015

    Nut Free Chocolate People review

    First off I want to start this blog off by apologising for not writing this sooner. Unfortunately I have spent the past few months in and out of hospital and fitting in blogging with this has proven to be difficult.

    So now to get on to the actual blog. After I wrote my review on the 'Just Love Food Company' cakes I was approached by a lady who runs her own business selling nut free chocolate. It's called 'Nut Free Chocolate People'. I'd never heard of the company until she messaged me on facebook. I am extremely glad that I was asked to review their chocolate as it was very delicious and tasted great with a completely nut free reassurance.

    The 3 items together



    I was sent 3 different items of chocolate. The first (the one on the right) was the 'milk chocolate with fudge bar'. The second (the one in the middle) was a box of the 'Tea Time Delights'. The third (the one on the right) was a bag of the 'Easter Selection'.





    Looking at the first item (milk chocolate with fudge bar) the first thing I noted was that it looked really tasty (this was before I even opened the packaging. It was packaged in a clear plastic bag with a sticker on it telling you what the item is as well as highlighting the nut free part of it. On opening the bag the chocolate smelled really good. It had lots of fudge chunks in it and definitely looked super yummy. On tasting it it was just as good as it looked! It was creamy, smooth and melt in the mouth. I'd highly reccommend it to anyone who loves chocolate and fudge.



    The second item came packaged in a white box. It looked really professional looking and it was great to see a box of chocolates that was nut free as in shops or online it's pretty impossible to find a box of chocolates which are nut free as due to the selection of chocolates within it they either have nutty chocolate within the box or they carry a high risk of cross contamination. Again there was a sticker stating what the item was and highlighting the nut free part.




     On opening the box the chocolates look amazing! There were two different parts which each contained 6 chocolates each. They were adorable designs which replicated teapots, clocks, honey pots etc. Again, like the milk chocolate with fudge bar, the chocolate smelled really good. It was very melt in the mouth and moreish. These definitely didn't last very long!



     The third, and last, item came packaged in a clear plastic bag. Like the above 2 items it carried a sticker letting you know what the item was as well as, once again, highlighting the nut free part. The chocolate, again, looked really nice and I couldn't wait to try it,








    Within the 'Easter Selection' there were chocolate rabbits, Easter eggs and ducks. They were a super cute design and suitable for children and adults alike! These also did not last very long as they were great tasting and very yummy.







    After receiving this, tasting it and highlighting how great it was my mum ordered me an Easter egg and another bag of Easter Selection for an Easter present as due to chocolate either having nuts in it or carrying a 'may contain' warning it's difficult to find holiday chocolate in which I can eat. 'Nut Free Chocolate Company' do many different types of chocolate including holiday chocolate which is great as who doesn't love a bit of chocolate at holiday time?

    Their facebook page can be found here: https://www.facebook.com/NutFreeChocolatePeople?fref=ts
    Their website can be found here: http://nutfreechocolatepeople.com/index.html

    They are a great company who I can not highlight enough. They are very caring and put a lot of work into their chocolate and produce. Their prices are also great for the totally nut-free reassurance you get and are something every nut allergy sufferer should invest in at least once.



    Tuesday 17 March 2015

    Just Love Food Company's nut-free cupcakes!

    I have been meaning to write this blog for a few weeks now but due to being really busy with things I have not gotten around to it.

    In my last blog I wrote about my experience with the amazing company 'Just Love Food Company' (if you haven't read that blog and would like to here is the link: http://adifferentsortoflife.blogspot.co.uk/2015/02/just-love-food-company.html). Just to write a short summary of what 'Just Love Food Company' are: they are a company which supply nut free cakes which can be bought in supermarkets as well as directly from them and can be personalised. After writing this blog I shared it with the companies facebook page and not only did they post it on their page for their followers to see but they offered to send me some of their nut free cupcakes for me to review! I happily accepted their offer and the cakes arrived a few days later.

    I got them delivered to my student accommodation and was expecting 12 cupcakes at the most but I was given 48 in total! There were 4 boxes in total with 12 cupcakes in each. There were 6 with red icing on the top and 6 with yellow icing on the top. I decided I could not eat 48 cupcakes to myself so decided to share them with others. My mum and her fiancée got a box of 12, I left a box of 12 in my flat's kitchen for my flat mates to eat and gave some to my boyfriend's parents and his sister. My boyfriend helped me with the remaining ones I had.


    One of the 4 boxes of 12 cupcakes!




    On first inspection of them they looked lovely. They were nicely presented in a box in rows of red and yellow (see picture to left). The colours were very vibrant and they looked yummy.








    On opening the box each cupcake was wrapped in it's own individual packaging which would be greatly suited to parents looking for something for their child's lunch box. I also noticed the best before date on the box was nearly a month later which is great for having something that lasts a while. The cupcakes can also be frozen which means they last even longer! As soon as I received them I was eager to try one of each colour.

    An example of a red cupcake

    I first tried one of the red cupcakes. They smelled delicious and looked even better! There is a sponge on the bottom of each with some lovely cream in the middle and to top it all off some lovely red icing. The cupcake was amazing! I personally would say it was one of the best tasting cupcakes I've ever encountered. The sponge was very fluffy and moist and it tasted lovely. The icing tasted similar to the red icing used in their Angry Birds cake (see my original blog posted above). I found it to not be too sickly and was "finger-licking good"!



    An example of a yellow cupcake



    Next I moved onto the yellow cupcake and alike the red it smelled great and tasted even better! The icing tasted different but was still as mouth-wateringly good. Like the red cupcake the sponge was very light and fluffy.









    It's not just me who thinks the cakes taste great! My mum wrote on 'Just Love Food Company' facebook page:

    "They are absolutely fantastic really yummy, light and fluffy and make a wonderful alternative to a standard cupcake. I shall definitely purchase more of your products. It's really nice to see cakes suitable for allergy sufferers as I have struggled in the past to find manufacturers who produce nut free goods. Thank you and I look forward to tasting some off you're other creations." 


    These cupcakes can be bought in batches of 12, 24, 48 etc. They are priced at £20 for 48 cupcakes but they are amazing value for money! They taste great, last long and are 100% nut free guaranteed. I would highly recommend this company. I give their cupcakes a 10/10.

    If you would like to see more of their creations check out their:
    Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Just-Love-Food-Company/144224115622608?fref=ts
    Website: http://www.justlovefoodcompany.com/

    Monday 16 February 2015

    Just Love Food Company

    A major issue for those suffering with nut allergies is that so many desserts are off the menu. Although this can do wonders for the waist line it is always lovely to have a treat now and then. I have suffered with a nut allergy for the best part of 5 years now and the most difficult thing about it has been the transition of going from eating anything sweet I wanted to being extremely limited within my diet.

    This blog post is dedicated to an amazing company I have found. Most companies cannot guarantee that their food is nut free. This is due to them using nuts within the same factory so there is a risk, all be it small, of cross contamination from food that has nuts used within it to food that is supposedly "nut free". Before it used to always be about 'Fabulous Baking Boys'. They were completely nut free and did not use any nuts within their foods so it was a safe haven for nut allergy sufferers and their families. However late last year they delivered a blow which would change the way that nut allergic people could eat. They were changing their products and were going to begin to produce nut products. This in turn meant that their nut free no longer would exist. Since this happening the company 'Just Love Food Company' has become really popular amongst nut allergy sufferers. They have been around for a while but it has only been lately that they have become more prevalent and known about. Just Love Food Company ensure nut free. They do not use nuts in their factory, they also source ingredients which are 100% nut free. So despite Fabulous Baking Boys introducing a nut line all is not lost.

    Just Love Food Company provide nut free birthday cakes. They also have began to start providing cakes for other occasions as well as cup cakes so those with nut allergies do not have to lose out. They make a range of different products to serve the ever-growing population of nut allergy sufferers. There are cakes designed for children but also cakes suitable for adults.

    I have personally tried out two of their birthday cakes and I have no other word but fantastic to describe them.

    The first is the 'Angry Birds Cake'. The cake contains 16 servings and is great for birthday parties of children and adults alike. The cake was served to not only me but all the family and friends whom were present at the particular birthday party. They all loved it and couldn't believe it was nut free. I think people believe that if something is 'free-from' it will taste horrible but this cake is far from it. It has a lovely light and fluffy sponge with jam and cream filling that tastes like any other cake on the market so there is defiantly no missing out. The icing is very tasty too and is not too sweet or sickly. This particular cake can be found in the following supermarkets: Tesco, Nisa, Asda and Tesco (Wales).


    The second is the 'Happy Birthday Cake'. The cake is smaller than the 'Angry Birds Cake' as it contains 8 servings but it still tastes as fantastic! It again has a lovely jam and cream filling and the icing is not too sickly or sweet. It was recently my 21st Birthday and I ended up having 3 of these cakes over a period of a week (not all to myself though haha). I had one when I went out with my parents for a meal and they had some too and found it very yummy. The next day I had another with some friends I went out for a meal with and they also had some and thought it tasted great. The third I had at my birthday party. A Costco cake was bought for everyone else and I had this cake. I personally feel that Costco cakes are very sickly (I think it's the icing that's the problem) so I was more than happy to have a nut-free cake. I enjoyed the cake very much and would thoroughly recommend it to anyone looking for a yummy nut-free cake. This particular cake can be found in the following supermarkets: Tesco, Nisa and Tesco (Wales).


    Just Love Food Company do deliveries on their products.
    They also do personalised cakes for any occasion with people's names, ages and different designs.

    Their website can be found at: http://www.justlovefoodcompany.com/
    Their facebook page can be found at: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Just-Love-Food-Company/144224115622608?fref=ts

    Just Love Food Company is an amazing company who are dedicated to making the lives of nut allergy sufferers easier. Although they are getting better known they still do not, in my opinion, have the ultimate coverage they deserve. I would give this company a 5 star rating as they are an amazing and very caring company that truly do go the extra mile. I really could not recommend them more.

    Travelling with allergies

    Travelling is a stressful prospect at the best of times. People always look forward to their holiday but when it gets closer it's the worry of forgetting last minute things such as sun-tan lotion or extra underwear. For an allergic person it's a lot more complicated than that. It's the worry of going to another country where they may speak a different language altogether or allergies may not be as widely known about. It's the worry of "what if" and the stress of making sure that there is enough medication to last the holiday. Here's some useful tips on travelling for those with allergies.

    1. Make sure you have a supply of medication
    Particularly if you are travelling on a plane this is important. The rule I usually follow is have 2 lots of medication. So for example 4 epi-pens instead of the usual 2. The reason for the 2 sets is in case something were to go wrong and you misplaced one set. Particularly where epi-pens are concerned, if they're left in heat past a certain temperature they may not work as efficiently so it's always good to have an extra supply.

    2. Have adequate travel insurance
    If travelling somewhere within the EU (European Union) or the USA it is vital to have travel insurance. I think a lot of people assume allergies don't need to be covered by insurance but you don't want to be caught out in the unfortunate incident of ending up requiring medical care and potentially ending up with a large medical bill. When travelling within the EU it is a good idea to get a EHIC (European Health Insurance Card). These are free to get as long as you do not need them fast tracked and entitle you to free or reduced cost health care within most European Union countries. When travelling to the USA there are many companies offering health insurance, it is a good idea to shop around.

    3. Have a note of your details
    An idea is to have a note of your details written on either card or a piece of paper in case of an emergency. If you are going to another country a good idea would be to have this written in not only English but the country's language too. Due to one of the symptoms of anaphylaxis often being difficulty in breathing and/or speaking it can often be great for the emergency services and other people when trying to convey necessary information across. Ideas of things to write down are:
    • Name
    • Date of birth
    • Address 
    • GP name and address
    • Next of Kin contact
    • Medication
    • Allergies
    You could also put a note of things like any consultants you are under as well as how your allergies affect you (such as anaphylaxis, rash, vomiting etc.)

    4. Have a doctor's letter
    This is particularly important if you are travelling on a plane somewhere. Sometimes airlines can be very picky about letting people take medication on board if there is no doctor's letter stating you need it, in particular if it needs to be carried in hand luggage. Due to the ban on liquids over 100ml being in place on a lot of flights airlines are reluctant to let people carry liquid medication if it's over 100ml. An example of this would be liquid piriton.

    5. Have an emergency plan
    No one wants to be caught in an emergency situation, particularly on holiday, but it's always a good idea to have a plan in place if anything were to happen. Have a note of what the local emergency services number is (you can find this on google). Another good idea is to know where the nearest medical centre is (in case you need medical help but it's not a dire emergency) as well as the nearest hospital with an emergency department.

    6. If going to a country with a different language get translation cards
    It can be difficult enough to communicate in a foreign country if you don't have allergies but allergies make it a whole lot more difficult. An idea would be to get translation cards with the chosen language on them to make portraying important information across. It would be good to have what you're allergic to written in that language as well as what to do if you were to have a reaction (for example call the emergency services).

    7. Plan ahead for eating
    If possible try to get somewhere self-catering, this really helps out when it comes to allergies as you know exactly what would be going in to the food you are consuming and cooking. If this is not possible then make the place you are staying in aware of your dietary requirements. Make sure the remind the waiting staff at every meal so as to make sure nothing that will cause a problem comes in to contact with foods. Look up well-known food places within the country you are going to be staying and find out the locations of them. Making a list of safe places can be a really good idea. Seeking advice from other's who are well-known to allergies via social media (facebook, forums etc.) is also a good idea.

    Thursday 22 January 2015

    Other people's reactions to allergies and anaphylaxis

    As mentioned in my previous blogs I have only been suffering from anaphylaxis for just over 4 years. However, those 4 years have been one massive learning curve. I quickly learned that people can be extremely insensitive. Sometimes they try to give you advice about your allergies, thinking it is helping you, but the reality is it is only making things worse for you. Most of the time people do not mean to not understand they just find it exceptionally difficult.

    I did not grow up with anaphylaxis so from the word go really I was in charge of my own condition rather than my parents. I was the one who had to make others aware of my diagnosis and try to get them to understand. It has truly not been easy and even now, 4 years later, it is hard to get people to truly take it seriously.

    I think one of the main issues people have is they think it is a simple case of just avoiding food that has the allergen in it, Whilst this is a major part of stopping allergic reactions from happening it is not the full picture. People often fail to realise that even trace amounts of the food can cause issues. People also can not seem to get their heads around the fact that it is not just ingesting the allergen that is a problem, but often people have the issue of their allergy being airborne or a contact allergy where simply touching something or even breathing in the allergen itself can cause major issues.

    If I were to think about what the hardest part of living with allergies has been, in my personal opinion it would have to be the lack of understanding others have. A lot of the time they truly think I am just plain over-exaggerating when I look at the packaging on something and say "I cannot eat that as it may contain nuts". Trying to explain it is more than not like talking to a brick wall, or it will go in one ear and straight back out the other. It gets extremely frustrating as we are not talking about a simple reaction that involves a rash, we are talking about a reaction which if not treated properly could have dire consequences.

    Just the other day I was at in my boyfriend's flat. Like me he lives in student accommodation and shares with 6 other people. We were in his kitchen/living room and 2 of his flat mates as well as one of their friends were their. We were all having a drink together and one of his flat mates had asked someone to go to the shops to buy him peanuts. I said to him could he refrain from buying peanuts as I have a severe allergy to them. I went away for 20 minutes and came back to him eating a bag of peanuts. I stayed well away from him and made sure not to touch things he had come into contact with.

    I think one of the problems with trying to make people aware is anaphylaxis as a condition is not very well known. For the most part people know allergies exist however more often than not they associate an allergic reaction as being an itchy rash or even as hayfever. Whilst these are both annoying they are not considered to be life threatening.


    Wednesday 21 January 2015

    25 Gift Ideas for someone with allergies

    I asked the allergy community on new ideas for blog posts as I love other people's input when it comes to something which is set out to help other people. One of the suggestions that arose was "gift buying for people with allergies". I know the struggle it is for other people to buy me gifts. They find that "normal" items to buy people such as chocolates, flowers, make-up, cosmetics etc. are off limits. Here's some ideas on things to buy. Of course it does all depend on the gender as well as the age of the person. It also depends on the person's personality and likes and dislikes. If you were going to buy the person something edible or a cosmetic product then it would be best to ask the person what they know they are safe with so as to ensure their safety.

    1. Chocolates/Sweets the person can eat
    2. Handbag/rucksack
    3. Purse/wallet
    4. Book
    5. Diary
    6. Game console game/computer game
    7. Cosmetics they can use
    8. Bed wear (e.g. pyjama's, slippers, woolly socks, dressing gown, onesie etc.)
    9. Underwear
    10. Socks
    11. A gift voucher for a shop they like
    12. Money
    13. Photo frame/photo album
    14. Headphones
    15. Board game
    16. A toy
    17. A cup/mug
    18. Personalised things (such as things with their name on it, their date of birth, their wedding day etc.)
    19. A subscription to an online game they play
    20. A DVD/CD
    21. Jewellery
    22. Duvet cover, bed sheets, pillow cases etc.
    23. Alcohol
    24. A trip to somewhere special (such as a theme park, a theatre trip, a tour of somewhere etc.)
    25. Shoes/clothes

    Monday 19 January 2015

    Allergy induced bullying

    Bullying is a very unfortunate part of life that happens to the majority of us at some point or other. That does not mean it is acceptable but in today's reality it happens more often than I would care to think about. Like so many others, growing up I suffered bullying for many years. It was mainly emotional bullying that would focus on my appearance. My weight was openly criticised by so many people around me as well as other things I found myself being very self concious about. One thing I never thought someone would bully me about was my health issues, in particular my allergies. How wrong I was. It has happened more times than I even want to remember but I remember every incident so vividly like it's a tape re-playing constantly in my head. It made me isolate myself. It began to make me feel so ashamed of my conditions. I just wanted to fit in so I began to become careless with my allergies. I would not bother looking at labels when amongst company my own age because I did not want to seem strange to others, I did not want others to comment. It took a few years for me to finally realise that the people who truly matter are the ones who know about your conditions but do not comment negatively about them. They are the people who take notice and look out for you.

    I remember my first incident of bullying due to my allergies. I was in my 2nd year at high school. This was before I developed severe allergies but still suffered annoying allergies to food colourings which would make me come out in massive blotches which in turn would leave me scratching my skin, sometimes to the point where it would bleed. A boy in my class at school knew about my allergies. There was a bottle of blue food colouring sitting on a shelf. He grabbed hold of it, opened it and tipped it over my hand when I was not looking in his direction. I automatically turned around and on realising what had happened I asked why he just did what he did. He laughed at me and that encouraged others in the class to laugh too. He looked at me and said "you're a liar. Nobody has allergies to food colouring. Stop being such an attention seeker". I tried to get on with class when the bell rang however within 30 minutes I had to ask to be excused to the school office. My hand had swelled up and my body was covered in my usual itchy, blotchy rash. I was sent home from school and after a lot of antihistamine I began to feel better.

    Other instances have occurred that are not commonly thought of as bullying. I remember dating a boy who had a best friend who also liked me. I would frequently end up in hospital due to not only my allergies but my severe asthma too. I would have to cancel going out with the boy I was dating because I was too unwell. I would receive phone calls off his best friend shouting at me down the phone, telling me that I was faking it for attention. He would say I was just being over dramatic and nobody is that sick. When I would end up in hospital he would laugh at me and tell me I was just being a drama queen. I remember going out to eat with the two of them. Before ordering my food I let the waitress know about my severe allergies. She left and the boy said to me that I was an embarrassment. It is just a peanut it is not going to do anything to me and I should stop being so stupid. I remember being constantly upset because off all the comments he would make. At the time I felt so helpless and like I did not know what to do. Looking back I realise what I should have done. I should have just walked away from the situation. I should have let him know that he cannot treat me like that.

    I am now nearly 21 years old and I look back on the years with my health conditions. I used to hide them away like I was ashamed off them. I used to fear people knowing about things. Now I look at it all like "these are a part of my life that are not going away". If people treat me in a negative manner because of my health issues then they do not deserve to be part of my life. I did not choose this lifestyle, but I have learned to live my life around it all. Everyone deserves to be treated nicely. Nobody deserves to be isolated and made to feel like they are any less of a person because of a condition which is out with their control. The stronger person is the one who can admit that yes they may not have the life of others their age but they are not different, they are still a person. Food allergies are a major annoyance. They can be a massive inconvenience to your life but you are still a person and don't deserve people to be horrible to you.